Are you a Poly Boy

For some in the queer communities marriage or monogamy is not for them. Its not right or wrong to desire sex and or relationships with more than one person just as it is not right or wrong to be in a monogamous relationship. That is what makes this such a dynamic world.

"Polyamory has been defined as the philosophy and practice of loving more than one person at a time with honesty and integrity. Synonyms for polyamory are responsible, ethical, and intentional, non-monogamy. Because those descriptions are somewhat clumsy, the term Polyamory was coined in the late 80's by a pagan Priestess, Morning Glory Zell, and defines a range of different lifestyle alternatives. In most cases, but not all, this involves some sexual or at least intensely intimate sensual behavior." - Polycat.org

It seems to me poly relationships are right for many gay, bi and trans identified men. Often you see ads in profiles, on-line cruise sites where a couple is seeking a third. The couple have been together for ten, twenty or more years and now one or both of them want to share their life with another person within a relationship going beyond sharing a third for sex as in a open relationship concept.

Having this other person(s) interact with one or both partners of an existing relationship is the formation of a polyamorous situation. To find out more about this kind of relationship, check out the Polycat site. They have a lot of useful and supportive information.

Being a Poly Boy can be fun if done openly and honestly. Its called cheating otherwise!